if you’re in your 20s and you’re defending your right to chill with fuckin 14 year olds in any way that doesn’t resemble a chaperone, consider this: you’re a grown ass adult, the fuck is wrong with you
and as an addendum if you’re an adult in a mixed-age social circle it’s not enough to just not be actively trying to interact in non-chaperonly ways. you need to be willing to be the chaperone. a lot of fandoms draw crowds that start pretty young and if you’re One Of The Adults you need to be willing to keep an eye out for the kids’ safety and you need to hold the other adults accountable for their behavior.
And if you can’t, then be mature enough to remove yourself from those situations.
Super incredibly maddening thing about mental illness:
Fighting your ass off to live a normal life and function as well as you can, and instead of getting credit and having people be proud of you for all the efforts you’re making, having people use your apparently normal behavior as a reason to invalidate you and think you weren’t that sick to begin with.
It takes a lot of badassery to act this normal, but the effort is all invisible
So, you know how some Nicki Minaj fans don’t know why we hate her?
Also, she said misandry isn’t real
So, basically, fuck her.
ThIS THE FUNNEIST POST…
Especially since, in the past, she’s explicitly acknowledged that there are women with vaginas and women without them (which led a radio host to treat her like an idiot and her to give the best eye roll in history). So watch those quotation marks friends and don’t let journalists put words in your mouth.
Was anyone else a little bit disappointed that the kick ass Lady Counsel Member turned out to be Natasha? Still love Natasha, but for a few glorious seconds, it was awesome to see an older woman come out of nowhere to kick ass.
Oh hell yes. For one glorious moment this movie was going to be the utter best thing ever made. And then…. well it was still cool but such a disappointment we didn’t get unexpected kick ass over 40 woman.
Did we ever even find out what happened to the counsel member?
We, too, thought for a glorious moment that Captain America: The Winter Soldier was a movie where every female character was a secret badass.
if you don’t prove your worth (and not to society at large, but specifically to the people who already have the money), you’ll literally fucking die. this is considered totally normal and not at all evidence that the system is evil
For months readers have worried that Dick Grayson might be the latest Robin to die in comics. The signs were certainly there. He was tortured and had his identity revealed in Forever Evil. And then they cancelled his comic, Nightwing.
But rest assure Dick lovers, Mr. Grayson is staying in…
If he’s working for Spyral, could this mean a return of the original BATWOMAN, Kathy Kane?
That would make me happy to no end.
(Note: I don’t mean she should become Batwoman again. I love Kate way too much for that. But Kathy was one of the best parts of Morrison’s run, and I’d love to see her back.)